Arguably, the absolute power of a thank you note to actually win you the job is limited. Still – whether you got nervous in your job interview or not – sending a thank you letter after the initial interview or even later on in the hiring process is quite simply a smart thing to do. But the question of mentioning nervousness in that note is another thing…
Whether you get those jittery interview nerves or stay calm and cool as a cucumber, here are basic tips on post-interview thank you notes: you want them to be short and sweet – a nice reminder of who you are and how well you would fit in with the rest of the company. And if you do have something extremely relevant to add that will reinforce your value (a new degree, an award you just received, or a congratulations on something good that just happened to the company), by all means include that too.
But it’s best NOT to introduce anything new (like being nervous in your job interview) that might undo all the hard work you put into that interview. No pleasant meandering chit-chat. No long interesting story about something that just happened to you – unless it’s absolutely positively relevant to the company’s needs.
As for the interview nerves question…it’s worth thinking about. Bringing up the subject of getting nervous – or mentioning interview nervousness in any way – in your after interview thank you note could at least conceivably affect their hiring decision – depending on how it’s handled.
Could a post-interview thank you letter hurt my chances?
For the most part, it can’t. Especially if you stick to the basics. (Of course there are rare exceptions.) But if you do look online for sample thank you letters, please remember to put them in your own words and don’t just copy them word for word. Some of the samples I see online are so stiff and unnatural…and they’re certainly not geared to your actual experience. The last thing you want a potential employer to think is you can’t even write your own thank you letter!
But since this post is specifically about whether a post-interview thank you note is a good place to explain getting nervous during an interview, my answer to whether you should use your note to try to explain away your nervousness is also short and sweet: “Probably not!”
Employers expect candidates will get nervous – at least to some extent – during the interview process. So unless you were pouring buckets of sweat like Albert Brooks in Broadcast News, you probably were far more aware of your jangly nerves than they were.
And by mentioning it at all in a post interview thank you note, you’ll only be leaving a reminder of the nervous you – creating a new brain cell for the interviewer that in effect links your name PLUS the word “nervous”. Why do that to yourself!
Now if you really fell all over yourself during the interview and feel you have nothing to lose by addressing how nervous you were – and maybe adding something like you’d love another chance to show them who you really are – well, it might be worth a shot. On that point, I was just looking through my archives and found this post about someone who really screwed up his interview:
In his case, he had nothing to lose by trying to recover from an especially bad interview. It was therefore at least worth the effort to use a thank you note to try to change the employer’s mind about giving him another chance. Unfortunately, it didn’t help. But there were many reasons he didn’t get the job way beyond his nerves.
If you absolutely feel driven to mention your nervousness, just say it ever so casually ” I know I was a bit nervous and thank everyone for being so easy to talk to!” Or some variation of that idea. This turns your mention of nerves into a compliment for them and doesn’t in any way detract from you and your qualifications for the job.
But personally, I still think you’re much better off staying away from the topic altogether. Keep your thank you note polite (not too stiff) and direct – and try your best to leave an impression that’s positive.
What do you think? Should a job seeker bring up their nerves in a thank you note? Have you ever been very noticeably nervous in an interview?
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