Speaking of job interview questions and answers…I was just watching a show called Million Dollar Listing on Bravo TV. (Do I judge you?) And it had the perfect example of what NOT to say in an interview when asked “What’s your greatest weakness?”
To fill you in, this is not a show about great interview techniques or even how to get a job. It’s a show about three young, hungry, aggressive real estate brokers in Los Angeles – mostly in the most exclusive neighborhoods of Hollywood, Malibu and Beverly Hills. The brokers are named Chad, Josh, and Madison. Cut to Madison’s trusty assistant giving him notice just as he got the biggest listing of his life. Ouch. We’re talking many millions. So he needs help FAST.
The interview Q & A begins…
Next time we see Madison, he’s interviewing people for the job. I love that we get to be flies on the wall as we watch him handle some real live real estate job interviews. We’re shown segments of three of the job interviews, with three of the interviewees revealing their greatest weakness.
The first actually let us know her weakness while answering a different question. (I’d try to be careful about this, btw. In interviews, less is often more.) But I’m including it anyway since it’s a great example of what not to do! She went for an interview with a top, high-powered broker and told him like hey wow she needs like free time for her art work and other personal interests. That may be true, and I do always say be yourself, but…WHAT was she doing in this interview in the first place? She wasted her time and his.
Lesson 1: Know what the job is and who you are
Don’t go to the interview unless you can handle the requirements and really want the job you’re interviewing for. I know that sounds painfully obvious, but you’d be surprised how wide people cast their nets sometimes. Of course, there’s no harm in going if you at least think it might be for you, but please do yourself and the interviewer a favor: First research the industry and job requirements.
Even if Madison (or any boss) makes the mistake of not being specific about the workload in the ad, you should make it your job to investigate what the job requires (either beforehand or during the interview). And if you still want the job, despite needing time for your creative pursuits or whatever, then don’t undercut yourself by telling the boss the job is only a means to an end. People who are passionate about their work want to hire people who will be dedicated to helping them excel. If that is not you – and for many it isn’t – then don’t even think about taking the job.
But if you actually think it might be for you, please give an answer that shows you’re excited about the opportunity to work there and will dedicate yourself to making your boss a star. You can talk about your creativity later. You can even find ways to apply it to your job. But for now, your weakness is that you work too hard or are a perfectionist or sometimes worry about not having done enough so you look for ways to do it even better next time or some such thing. (Keep reading for a great sample answer.)
Lesson 2: Don’t ever say you’re not organized, ok?
The next interviewee was asked her greatest weakness and she answered “Well… sometimes I’m not very organized.” NEXT!
Seriously, if I’m looking to hire someone, the one thing I absolutely want the person to be is ORGANIZED. So never never never admit that’s your weakness!
Lesson 3: A weakness should be expressed as a strength where possible
So now we come to the third interviewee. (Feels a little like Goldilocks, doesn’t it?) She was asked her greatest weakness, and she said sometimes she expects a lot of others because she expects so much of herself. BINGO! She hit the golden prize – especially because of who her potential boss is and what he values. (Smart to look for those clues as you listen to the person interviewing you.)
Madison saw himself in that answer and loved it. Not that you should all go use THAT answer, but it was a smart move on her part. And yes…she got the job.
Bonus interview tip for your actual answer to the greatest weakness question
Remember to keep your answer brief as to what the actual weakness is, and then expand by talking about what you’ve done to improve or even overcome the weakness. This way you leave the interview Q & A on a positive note.
If you’d like to read more about how to answer interview questions like this, here are some posts that might help:
Good luck out there! And please let me know how it goes.
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