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		<title>By: Lia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 04:25:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, i have been scrambling to look for this post and realized you are no longer blogging on here. But just in case you come from time to time to check this, Yes, i am in the USA, Texas actually. I did file a complaint with the disability act and they investigated. Nothing happened and they denied everything. No one in the office came forward because they didn&#039;t want to loose their job. Nothing ever went through due to that. 

I like your approach. small and brief short answers! 

I know it is against the rules not to say we have a disability and against the law. But I want to know how I can prevent something like this happening again. From my understanding, the only one that knew about the disability when i was hired was the person that wanted me for the job. It was all jealousy because i did a better job than he did as well as patients requesting me because i was nice and gentle. I am not sure he told his main boss and that is where things got stirred up. There were no findings in the investigation.

How is a company or job supposed to know about our hearing disability and know that it won&#039;t affect my work? Do i tell them in an interview or after being hired? Or Never?

Thanks,
Lia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, i have been scrambling to look for this post and realized you are no longer blogging on here. But just in case you come from time to time to check this, Yes, i am in the USA, Texas actually. I did file a complaint with the disability act and they investigated. Nothing happened and they denied everything. No one in the office came forward because they didn&#8217;t want to loose their job. Nothing ever went through due to that. </p>
<p>I like your approach. small and brief short answers! </p>
<p>I know it is against the rules not to say we have a disability and against the law. But I want to know how I can prevent something like this happening again. From my understanding, the only one that knew about the disability when i was hired was the person that wanted me for the job. It was all jealousy because i did a better job than he did as well as patients requesting me because i was nice and gentle. I am not sure he told his main boss and that is where things got stirred up. There were no findings in the investigation.</p>
<p>How is a company or job supposed to know about our hearing disability and know that it won&#8217;t affect my work? Do i tell them in an interview or after being hired? Or Never?</p>
<p>Thanks,<br />
Lia</p>
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		<title>By: Ronnie Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronnie Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 22:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi JN! 

I&#039;m so sorry you had this happen. I know how hard it must be for you. 

I really don&#039;t have any foolproof answer to give you. I wouldn&#039;t volunteer the information, but if they ask if you&#039;re still working there, you can explain that you were let go, even though you did your best to makes things work out. They are going to call the company, so you know more about what they might hear than I do. Then the best advice I have is to read the article again. It tells you how to do the delicate dance of explaining and then moving on to the new job and what you can do for them. Never put down the other place or your former boss. And as I also say, you need some great references to help, so make sure to line those up ahead of time.

Good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi JN! </p>
<p>I&#8217;m so sorry you had this happen. I know how hard it must be for you. </p>
<p>I really don&#8217;t have any foolproof answer to give you. I wouldn&#8217;t volunteer the information, but if they ask if you&#8217;re still working there, you can explain that you were let go, even though you did your best to makes things work out. They are going to call the company, so you know more about what they might hear than I do. Then the best advice I have is to read the article again. It tells you how to do the delicate dance of explaining and then moving on to the new job and what you can do for them. Never put down the other place or your former boss. And as I also say, you need some great references to help, so make sure to line those up ahead of time.</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: JN</title>
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		<dc:creator>JN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 03:51:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was placed on leave pending possible termination and was eventually fired for lies the supervisor told about me and my performance. I believe this stemmed from my refusing to compromise my work ethics and integrity. He plays favorites and I have never been one of them, but after that, he was just gunning for me. The question: Before I was terminated, but while I was on leave I applied for other jobs in my field in anticipation of the possible termination. I was still employed when I applied and submitted my application as such becuase I was in fact still employed and not positive I was going to be fired. Anyway, after I got officially terminated, I got 2 call backs for interviews on those pre-termination applications. The interviews are coming at the beginning of this week and I am wondering how to handle this interview process. Any advice would be much appreciated. Most specifically my question is: If they don’t ask or mention anything that leads into my needing to reveal I was fired, should I volunteer that information? Or should I take a don’t ask, don’t tell approach? Also, I know that I may eventually have to address this firing on my record with a potential employer, based on what I have told you, what is the best response I could use that won’t work against me?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was placed on leave pending possible termination and was eventually fired for lies the supervisor told about me and my performance. I believe this stemmed from my refusing to compromise my work ethics and integrity. He plays favorites and I have never been one of them, but after that, he was just gunning for me. The question: Before I was terminated, but while I was on leave I applied for other jobs in my field in anticipation of the possible termination. I was still employed when I applied and submitted my application as such becuase I was in fact still employed and not positive I was going to be fired. Anyway, after I got officially terminated, I got 2 call backs for interviews on those pre-termination applications. The interviews are coming at the beginning of this week and I am wondering how to handle this interview process. Any advice would be much appreciated. Most specifically my question is: If they don’t ask or mention anything that leads into my needing to reveal I was fired, should I volunteer that information? Or should I take a don’t ask, don’t tell approach? Also, I know that I may eventually have to address this firing on my record with a potential employer, based on what I have told you, what is the best response I could use that won’t work against me?</p>
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		<title>By: Ronnie Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronnie Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 19:51:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lia!

This is a tough one. If you&#039;re in the U.S., I don&#039;t think an employer can fire you for a disability, especially if they knew about it when they hired you since you&#039;re protected by the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act). If that really was the case, you may be able to still contact the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission or your state Division/Department of Human Rights. 

As for interviews...your former employer will not admit having done that for legal reasons, so you really can&#039;t say that&#039;s why you were fired. You can say that it turned out not to be a good fit and then go on and explain why this new one is. If you want to mention that there was an issue with your hearing ability and then again explain why this would not be a problem in the new job, use your discretion. For the right employer, without actually saying that was the reason you were fired, they&#039;ll get it. 

And if they press for details, you can say that you were told you had been late but always punched in early, so even you are wondering why. Again, a smart employer will read between the lines. Still, a short answer and focusing on your strengths for the new job is always the best first approach. 

Good luck finding a great job where you&#039;re appreciated for who you are!  ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lia!</p>
<p>This is a tough one. If you&#8217;re in the U.S., I don&#8217;t think an employer can fire you for a disability, especially if they knew about it when they hired you since you&#8217;re protected by the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act). If that really was the case, you may be able to still contact the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission or your state Division/Department of Human Rights. </p>
<p>As for interviews&#8230;your former employer will not admit having done that for legal reasons, so you really can&#8217;t say that&#8217;s why you were fired. You can say that it turned out not to be a good fit and then go on and explain why this new one is. If you want to mention that there was an issue with your hearing ability and then again explain why this would not be a problem in the new job, use your discretion. For the right employer, without actually saying that was the reason you were fired, they&#8217;ll get it. </p>
<p>And if they press for details, you can say that you were told you had been late but always punched in early, so even you are wondering why. Again, a smart employer will read between the lines. Still, a short answer and focusing on your strengths for the new job is always the best first approach. </p>
<p>Good luck finding a great job where you&#8217;re appreciated for who you are!  <img src='http://www.workcoachcafe.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lia</title>
		<link>http://www.workcoachcafe.com/2008/05/31/how-do-i-talk-about-being-fired-when-i-interview/comment-page-1/#comment-74952</link>
		<dc:creator>Lia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 07:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,
Out of curiosity for future interviews which i am in the process of sending my resume to different companies. I have one question that i do not know how to answer without making it about disability discrimination. I was once fired from my job because i &quot;can&#039;t hear very well&quot; is what the person told me when he fired me. He knew about my disability which i am a deaf speaking person. I worked in a doctors office/hospital and he hired me to work along with him under the doctor&#039;s license. I knew why he fired me because he told me and couldn&#039;t handle the fact that i didn&#039;t hear very well, so i had it investigated and everyone in the office covered their mouth so they won&#039;t lose their job. I respected the others because they had nothing to do with it. He claimed i was always late, which i never was and apparently had time cards that showed i was, which i of course think was fake. I was actually always 10 min early to work and was only late one time due to an accident on the way to work and it was only less than 10 min late. 

How do i explain in a job interview the reason i was fired from this job? And i was fired because of my &quot;disability&quot;? I know we are not allowed to talk or speak of our disability...but how do explain this?

Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />
Out of curiosity for future interviews which i am in the process of sending my resume to different companies. I have one question that i do not know how to answer without making it about disability discrimination. I was once fired from my job because i &#8220;can&#8217;t hear very well&#8221; is what the person told me when he fired me. He knew about my disability which i am a deaf speaking person. I worked in a doctors office/hospital and he hired me to work along with him under the doctor&#8217;s license. I knew why he fired me because he told me and couldn&#8217;t handle the fact that i didn&#8217;t hear very well, so i had it investigated and everyone in the office covered their mouth so they won&#8217;t lose their job. I respected the others because they had nothing to do with it. He claimed i was always late, which i never was and apparently had time cards that showed i was, which i of course think was fake. I was actually always 10 min early to work and was only late one time due to an accident on the way to work and it was only less than 10 min late. </p>
<p>How do i explain in a job interview the reason i was fired from this job? And i was fired because of my &#8220;disability&#8221;? I know we are not allowed to talk or speak of our disability&#8230;but how do explain this?</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Ronnie Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronnie Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Apr 2011 22:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>liz R,

The article above and the linked article explain how to handle situations like this. It helps, of course, if you admit to yourself this was wrong, you learned your lesson, and will be a stronger employee from now on becausse of it. 

I wish you much luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>liz R,</p>
<p>The article above and the linked article explain how to handle situations like this. It helps, of course, if you admit to yourself this was wrong, you learned your lesson, and will be a stronger employee from now on becausse of it. </p>
<p>I wish you much luck!</p>
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		<title>By: liz R</title>
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		<dc:creator>liz R</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2011 03:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi I am stuck just like everyone else I was previsouly working in retail when I was termintaed for a lost and found violation .But It not like every item that was found I just took.. it was two happy meal toys found and being played around and used as little decortions at the register and after three week was going to be throwed away when I asked if I can have them..so how can I explained this without looking like I&#039;m theft or something..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi I am stuck just like everyone else I was previsouly working in retail when I was termintaed for a lost and found violation .But It not like every item that was found I just took.. it was two happy meal toys found and being played around and used as little decortions at the register and after three week was going to be throwed away when I asked if I can have them..so how can I explained this without looking like I&#8217;m theft or something..</p>
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		<title>By: Ronnie Ann</title>
		<link>http://www.workcoachcafe.com/2008/05/31/how-do-i-talk-about-being-fired-when-i-interview/comment-page-1/#comment-11338</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronnie Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 01:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi K! 

Thank you so much for letting me know. I&#039;m so glad the article helped you.  I understand - from a good deal of personal experience as well as from readers - just how hard all this is. And so more than having answers, I try to help people keep going. I know they&#039;ll get there, but sometimes it just helps to have someone tell you that. ;-)

Best of luck!!! Please keep in touch. 

Ronnie Ann</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi K! </p>
<p>Thank you so much for letting me know. I&#8217;m so glad the article helped you.  I understand &#8211; from a good deal of personal experience as well as from readers &#8211; just how hard all this is. And so more than having answers, I try to help people keep going. I know they&#8217;ll get there, but sometimes it just helps to have someone tell you that. <img src='http://www.workcoachcafe.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Best of luck!!! Please keep in touch. </p>
<p>Ronnie Ann</p>
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		<title>By: K</title>
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		<dc:creator>K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wanted to say I really appreciated this post. I have been searching through a number of websites to help me piece together what to say on why I left my job.  This, by-far, is the best article I&#039;ve seen.  Thanks again for the help and the uplifting thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to say I really appreciated this post. I have been searching through a number of websites to help me piece together what to say on why I left my job.  This, by-far, is the best article I&#8217;ve seen.  Thanks again for the help and the uplifting thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Ronnie Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronnie Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 00:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for joining in the conversation, Liara! The nice things about dreams is they are great motivators and, if we don&#039;t set any limits, they can lead us to other dreams we never even knew we had.  

Ronnie Ann</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for joining in the conversation, Liara! The nice things about dreams is they are great motivators and, if we don&#8217;t set any limits, they can lead us to other dreams we never even knew we had.  </p>
<p>Ronnie Ann</p>
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