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	<title>Comments on: Stuck in the Waiting Game After 2nd Interview</title>
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		<title>By: Work Coach Cafe</title>
		<link>http://www.workcoachcafe.com/2008/05/28/stuck-in-the-waiting-game-after-second-interview/comment-page-23/#comment-88979</link>
		<dc:creator>Work Coach Cafe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 03:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Allie,

If she had been out of the office for a few days, she probably has many things to catch up on, and filling this job is not her highest priority yet.  If you haven&#039;t heard by Tuesday, I&#039;d check in again.  

I concur with Debbie and your own instinct.  Maybe this will work out for you, and maybe it won&#039;t.  But, continue looking so if you don&#039;t get an answer you won&#039;t have lost much time.

Good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Allie,</p>
<p>If she had been out of the office for a few days, she probably has many things to catch up on, and filling this job is not her highest priority yet.  If you haven&#8217;t heard by Tuesday, I&#8217;d check in again.  </p>
<p>I concur with Debbie and your own instinct.  Maybe this will work out for you, and maybe it won&#8217;t.  But, continue looking so if you don&#8217;t get an answer you won&#8217;t have lost much time.</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 01:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Check in with them but in your mind, MOVE ON.  You will only cause yourself pain by hanging on emotionally.  I know.  It took me almost 2 years to get hired.  When they wanted me, I knew it and they knew it and it happened.  Without pain.  Best of luck to you.  Persevere in general, you will get employed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Check in with them but in your mind, MOVE ON.  You will only cause yourself pain by hanging on emotionally.  I know.  It took me almost 2 years to get hired.  When they wanted me, I knew it and they knew it and it happened.  Without pain.  Best of luck to you.  Persevere in general, you will get employed.</p>
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		<title>By: ALLIE</title>
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		<dc:creator>ALLIE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 23:56:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Had first interview on Wednesday, Dec 14, 2011. The second interview was on Friday, Jan 6, 2012. I sent thank you notes for each round of interviews and telephoned on Wednesday, Jan 11, 2012 to see if they made a final decision. I was told that she had been out of the office for a few days and I would hear from her by the end of the week. Needless to say I didn&#039;t hear anything. Should I call again or move on?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Had first interview on Wednesday, Dec 14, 2011. The second interview was on Friday, Jan 6, 2012. I sent thank you notes for each round of interviews and telephoned on Wednesday, Jan 11, 2012 to see if they made a final decision. I was told that she had been out of the office for a few days and I would hear from her by the end of the week. Needless to say I didn&#8217;t hear anything. Should I call again or move on?</p>
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		<title>By: Work Coach Cafe</title>
		<link>http://www.workcoachcafe.com/2008/05/28/stuck-in-the-waiting-game-after-second-interview/comment-page-23/#comment-83316</link>
		<dc:creator>Work Coach Cafe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 03:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly,

Best of luck in this time anxious time looking for a job.  You may want to wait a few more days to hear back from the employer.  If you don;t hear within a couple days you may want to call or send a quick e-mail checking on the status.  Don&#039;t take the follow up as an opportunity to clarify answers, just express your desire for the position and check on the progress.

- The Work Coach Cafe Team</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly,</p>
<p>Best of luck in this time anxious time looking for a job.  You may want to wait a few more days to hear back from the employer.  If you don;t hear within a couple days you may want to call or send a quick e-mail checking on the status.  Don&#8217;t take the follow up as an opportunity to clarify answers, just express your desire for the position and check on the progress.</p>
<p>- The Work Coach Cafe Team</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 20:46:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Try to move on. You may be selected and you may not. It is very difficult to feel that such things are so outside your control. But they are. No matter what happens, try not to let it affect your belief in yourself. And don’t ever get trapped into thinking that this job is the be all and end all and your life will be ruined if you don’t get it. Believe me, I’ve been there and done that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Try to move on. You may be selected and you may not. It is very difficult to feel that such things are so outside your control. But they are. No matter what happens, try not to let it affect your belief in yourself. And don’t ever get trapped into thinking that this job is the be all and end all and your life will be ruined if you don’t get it. Believe me, I’ve been there and done that.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 20:40:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, 

I&#039;m in sort of a similar situation and am not sure what to do. I interviewed for a job a few weeks ago, and had a second interview on Nov. 24th. The second intervew went really well, I met with everyone I would be working with, and was there for about 2.5 hours. The hiring manager told me it was between myself and one other candidate, who had come in earlier that day for her second interview. I did a test with HR, and the HR rep said it would take 3-5 business days to run a background check, so he said I should get a call by the end of the following week. Unfortunately, I never specifically asked the hiring manager when he would let me know their decision. 

I sent a thank you/follow up email that evening, just thanking them for their time, and clarifying one question they had, and now I&#039;ve been waiting. Since my interview was on the Wednesday before thanksgiving, I figured the background check timeline may have been thrown off a bit, so I have been waiting patiently. Now it has been ten days since the interview, and I haven&#039;t heard anything back. Is it too soon to ask about their decision? What should I say in the email? Would it be annoying to email the hiring manager and ask when they would be making their decision, since I never technically asked him?

I am mostly concerned because I am now out of a job, and this job opportunity is in a new field for me. I really really want this job, so I am hesitant to apply for other jobs in my current field as a nanny because I know I could get one of these jobs very easily, but I&#039;d really like the new job(it pays a lot more and is more secure).

Any advice would be very appreciated!

Thanks!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, </p>
<p>I&#8217;m in sort of a similar situation and am not sure what to do. I interviewed for a job a few weeks ago, and had a second interview on Nov. 24th. The second intervew went really well, I met with everyone I would be working with, and was there for about 2.5 hours. The hiring manager told me it was between myself and one other candidate, who had come in earlier that day for her second interview. I did a test with HR, and the HR rep said it would take 3-5 business days to run a background check, so he said I should get a call by the end of the following week. Unfortunately, I never specifically asked the hiring manager when he would let me know their decision. </p>
<p>I sent a thank you/follow up email that evening, just thanking them for their time, and clarifying one question they had, and now I&#8217;ve been waiting. Since my interview was on the Wednesday before thanksgiving, I figured the background check timeline may have been thrown off a bit, so I have been waiting patiently. Now it has been ten days since the interview, and I haven&#8217;t heard anything back. Is it too soon to ask about their decision? What should I say in the email? Would it be annoying to email the hiring manager and ask when they would be making their decision, since I never technically asked him?</p>
<p>I am mostly concerned because I am now out of a job, and this job opportunity is in a new field for me. I really really want this job, so I am hesitant to apply for other jobs in my current field as a nanny because I know I could get one of these jobs very easily, but I&#8217;d really like the new job(it pays a lot more and is more secure).</p>
<p>Any advice would be very appreciated!</p>
<p>Thanks!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 19:48:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am an experienced professional who has spent the last 2 years interviewing.  I would like to save you needless pain and heartache.  You are a very lucky person.  You have an actual job offer.  Accept the job you were offered on the date you said you would give your decision.  Call the other job and tell them exactly what you are going to do, that you understand their situation and even sympathize but you have had to move ahead on yours.  If they want you, they will convene a special meeting any way they can.  It is a waste of time to have a discussion with the HR contact.  The HR person often has NO control over these things.  

Please take this seriously.  I have recently found a job (finally!) and I truly truly feel your pain.  Don&#039;t lose the job in hand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am an experienced professional who has spent the last 2 years interviewing.  I would like to save you needless pain and heartache.  You are a very lucky person.  You have an actual job offer.  Accept the job you were offered on the date you said you would give your decision.  Call the other job and tell them exactly what you are going to do, that you understand their situation and even sympathize but you have had to move ahead on yours.  If they want you, they will convene a special meeting any way they can.  It is a waste of time to have a discussion with the HR contact.  The HR person often has NO control over these things.  </p>
<p>Please take this seriously.  I have recently found a job (finally!) and I truly truly feel your pain.  Don&#8217;t lose the job in hand.</p>
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		<title>By: Work Coach Cafe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Work Coach Cafe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 16:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James,

If you feel you have a good relationship with the HR contact, you may want to have a frank conversation explaining your situation and asking for direct feedback on the chances for this job coming through.  If you are honest with the employer hopefully they will be honest with you.  Please remember, it may be unfortunate but the timeline of the hiring process of the employer may not match the timeline you need.  Good luck!

- The Work Coach Cafe Team</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James,</p>
<p>If you feel you have a good relationship with the HR contact, you may want to have a frank conversation explaining your situation and asking for direct feedback on the chances for this job coming through.  If you are honest with the employer hopefully they will be honest with you.  Please remember, it may be unfortunate but the timeline of the hiring process of the employer may not match the timeline you need.  Good luck!</p>
<p>- The Work Coach Cafe Team</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 10:24:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

I&#039;m having a tricky time trying to work out what to do. I have had a second interview for a high level position mid way through last week and I thought the interview went very well. I have also been offered another role for which I needed to accept or decline by the end of last week. In the second interview it was understood (as HR had told the interviewer of my prospective offer) that I would need to be contacted by the close of business on Friday if they wanted to proceed with my application. The interviewer said that she was going to do her best but that there were a number of annual meetings being held over the following few days and that it may be difficult to get all those needed in the decision making process together. I was contacted by the close of the week to be told that they were unable to come back to me as they had not gotten together as yet. I put off the other job offer until this week as I would much prefer the job I am waiting to hear back on. It is now a week from the second interview and i have heard nothing. Knowing that I have another job in the wings I would have thought may have encouraged them to get back to me sooner but it would seem not. I am not sure whether to keep waiting at the risk of annoying or potentially losing out on a position or simply let it go and accept the other offer even though it is less desirable. I cannot work out whether the interview went as well as I thought it had .... on reflection perhaps it didn&#039;t. Should I contact them again or simply leave it be ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m having a tricky time trying to work out what to do. I have had a second interview for a high level position mid way through last week and I thought the interview went very well. I have also been offered another role for which I needed to accept or decline by the end of last week. In the second interview it was understood (as HR had told the interviewer of my prospective offer) that I would need to be contacted by the close of business on Friday if they wanted to proceed with my application. The interviewer said that she was going to do her best but that there were a number of annual meetings being held over the following few days and that it may be difficult to get all those needed in the decision making process together. I was contacted by the close of the week to be told that they were unable to come back to me as they had not gotten together as yet. I put off the other job offer until this week as I would much prefer the job I am waiting to hear back on. It is now a week from the second interview and i have heard nothing. Knowing that I have another job in the wings I would have thought may have encouraged them to get back to me sooner but it would seem not. I am not sure whether to keep waiting at the risk of annoying or potentially losing out on a position or simply let it go and accept the other offer even though it is less desirable. I cannot work out whether the interview went as well as I thought it had &#8230;. on reflection perhaps it didn&#8217;t. Should I contact them again or simply leave it be ?</p>
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		<title>By: QG</title>
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		<dc:creator>QG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 07:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,
I am facing the same situation here. I&#039;ve gone through 2nd round of interview and to me, it went pretty well. I followed up with thank you note. However, it&#039;s been a week since I sent the thank you note and I&#039;ve yet to hear anything. During the 2nd interview I was told that I was one of the shortlisted candidate. I logged on to the job application website and noticed that the job status is now &quot;No longer accepting job submission&quot;. The job was advertised since July this year and right after my interview, it is now closed. I am really curious as to whether I will get an offer soon or they&#039;ve already found the right candidate?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />
I am facing the same situation here. I&#8217;ve gone through 2nd round of interview and to me, it went pretty well. I followed up with thank you note. However, it&#8217;s been a week since I sent the thank you note and I&#8217;ve yet to hear anything. During the 2nd interview I was told that I was one of the shortlisted candidate. I logged on to the job application website and noticed that the job status is now &#8220;No longer accepting job submission&#8221;. The job was advertised since July this year and right after my interview, it is now closed. I am really curious as to whether I will get an offer soon or they&#8217;ve already found the right candidate?</p>
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